This blog was begun as a way for me to communicate life after JD, to share thoughts with offspring and friends.
In the months since I last blogged we have been dealing with my youngest son's illness. He has been my roommate and friend since Spring 2013.
We are now in countdown mode as he has terminal cancer.
It is not "in the plan" for parents to outlive their children but it happens too often.
I have to applaud him for some things. He has made it a mission to heal emotional wounds and leave his family better than it was, to leave us each other.
I feel doomed to be living "life after".
But in honor of the ones I love I will live it and I will live it to the best of my ability.
